Badoo.com Incident of lulz

Cross Chatting LULZ

Site users creating cross chat for lulz using a phone number.

Wow what a odd title, yes it is a bit odd but also rather amusing once you read further on what it is.
If you struck a note and know exactly what it is that would be because you have either done it or know someone who has, fair play to you.

First of here is the joker and she being a good looking woman(I shall refrain from the use of lady at present) certainly would attract allot of male attention to which probably gets men throwing their numbers at them without even saying hello.

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Joanne from Market Harborough

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It start of simple enough with me sending a descent message, complimenting how attractive she looks and so on. Her profile description had said “Just say hello” so i messaged and said hello.

What i got back was a Telephone number, no words or any responding text at all so i thought lets text it. Oddly the response was not Joanne but of course another man by the name of Darin. Quickly i had determined what this young woman had actually done so i messaged her knowing i would get no reply.

Then a voice call was made, our theories turned out to be correct.

I don’t know what other peoples opinions are regarding this but to me i found it funny. Its hard to take dating sites seriously anymore, if you don’t know what i mean you should read my other post from Evow.

Now if someone is messaging you on a dating site and you just end up getting someones number out the blue before you have even spoken to them properly it is fair guess to suspect this kind of situation is occurring. Now although i found it rather funny i am certain others would not, in fact the other guy who was affected because of Joanne did not sound very happy at all. I think he was a little upset, Dude i know its a sick trick but seriously lighten up a little, after all this trick was pulled on me too lol.

There is something that concerns me out of this and i think it has a clear message to drill home. Ever read or heard the story of boy cried wolf, there will be occasions when this will be a genuine situation which will be seen as just another joke. That could well cause harm but in all fairness if you end up with a number from a stranger you contacted that you have not actually chatted with for a good period of time before exchanging numbers then i guess 9/10 its going to be a prank.

The second thing it indicates as a lesson to take away from this is that there are men out there that are happy just to dump there numbers out to strangers on the Internet, whether its on dating websites or not. Guys seriously your doing it wrong. My concern is that due to the actions of this woman now a total stranger actually has my number which actually raises a whole new set of dangers. For the most part the inconsiderate and foolish actions of another could well end up with a catastrophic outcome.

Take what you will in a teaching from this post and think about it, use your intelligence and consider the effects of your actions.

73’s all the best and stay safe, f1r31c3r signing off. Well i am actually off to cook me my dinner as i have a nice chicken breast marinating in the fridge that i fully intend to enjoy after cooking with a nice glass of red wine.

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Karma

A question i ask you a Question!

 

Recently on facebook someone posted about Karma. Interesting subject and one that is rather contradictory at times not to mention open to opinion one which i think i had in the comments to my friend who posted the status on karma.

It was asked on there status:

who is the person that deals with karma ? who says, what wrong deserves what punishment ??

For which i replied, note this is my opinion based as a response i thought i would blog for your food for thought. Continue reading

Women are worth less than prostitutes (What do you charge for SEX)

Hey all again this is a related post to my previous post regarding “its up to the man to chance the woman”

I recently decided to post a FaceBook status of what i was thinking in a intriguing manor about an interesting concept that in todays day women are less worth than prostitutes.

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Big words and full of great meaning so read on, here is my original status post:

  • What do you charge for SEX?… Devoted Love, A good wine and dine, a free drink, cash or do you give it FOR FREE. At least a prostitute has the sense to ask for cash. Girls girls girls, have more respect for yourselves or at least let the man take you to dinner before you let him have it. DONT BE A WORTHLESS SLUT!­­

I thought the above status said it all and it does but left out some important findings such as:

  • We are in 21st century ! Equality and all that.

Well i found that amusing to say the least but it bares a very valid point but the fact is it makes no difference at all, the moral of the story is they will never find a good man by opening ones legs. Does not matter what the century or decade, no man wants to marry a slut, yet many men (majority) will take the fuk and forget option. A good man wants to take a woman to dinner treat her like a lady and win her heart, fall in love and all that. a bad man wants to ripp of her knickers and fuk, empty his sack and leave, move on to the next hole as a goal. that has not changed since the dawn of time well at least since the cave man clubbed the woman over the head, knock her out and knock her up but that was the cave man days.

  • True but when do u know if a man is genuine, as many bullshit so women end up fooled. I know i have before.

Simply you play hard to get. Let him wine and dine you dont let him have sex for ages give the relationship time to develop, if he just wants a fk he wont be putting that much effort in or well maybe he will but chances are he might like it in the end and change his mind and stay. Either way playing hard to get, letting him wine and dine you is really good pleasurable fun thing to do in its self without the sex. One thing is for certain it thins out the boys from the men thats for sure and still to this day is the real fun bits in dating. You women can control that, we men are quite a slave to it in all fairness.
Although men like me have our own strong dignity and respect not only for women but our selves it can not be said for the majority of others. That is why its imperative that the woman plays hard to get if she wishes to find that special man. A man is only but fueled by his sexual need and if he gets it straight away then he has no need to continue the chase leaving no room for developing emotion. If he did not want to develop emotion like that then he wont continue to chaise you. Simples really.

Moral of the story is that if a man is wanting sex with you without being romantic or taking you out to dinner or even treating you like a lady then he clearly is not interested in a long term relationship. A man will contain himself and treat a lady well if he thinks she is worth it.

If you, the woman is wanting sex like that then dont be surprised when he leaves in the morning no strings attached “Why can i not i find a good man” well i wonder why, now wake up because if you actually wanted him to be your partner and start a relationship then well you screwed it and just got screwed.

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You really need to take that time and enjoy each others non sexual company well before you jump in bed with each other no matter how hard it is. If the woman cant contain her sexual feeling guess she dont think your worth more than a one night stand as well then.

Check out the video bellow something that i had found that touches on some real points all about the above. DONT LET THE MOVIES RUN YOUR LIFE yes that really is a truth. Mark Gungor is the host of the video and puts all the issues of impressions that are running your life. Trust your emotions not what your thinking.

Guys are supposed to chase the women

Hello all

Just another crazy sane blog post haha.

Its a new year frosh 2012 and i cant speak for others yet i fell there is allot of love in the air, with valentines approaching in February and the time moving very fast it pleases me to see people actually paying attention to courting and the fun aspects of dating and relationships.

A friend of mine on FaceBook posted an intriguing status which got a fair level of attention something that men related to more than women, maybe it has to do with the lack of education in schools today in relationships and dating. Saying that though i dont think its is the schools problem to teach children today the correct respectful way to treat a lady or approach a lady if one wants to fall in love with her. It is of course the parents responsibility yet parents can only teach there children if they know how to themselves. Thats why it is very important to have both parents mother and father in any upbringing.

Cutting to the chase the status i found intriguing that triggered me to post this was:

  • Ur the guy, ur supposed 2 chase after us. we pretend not 2 notice u because we want 2 c how hard u r willing 2 try. 😉

Apart from the modern short hand lingo or urban dictionary usage she has a very valid and intriguing post. In this response the word STALKER is used which poses an interesting point by some other posts posted in the comments one was:

  • If you chase and they don’t like it your a STALKER

Me being me i could not resist but respond to this with:

I agree but you still need to give a dog a bone as one puts it. Due to the reaction from some women calling men perverts and stalkers because they try so hard to show the woman they like them so much its become a very fine line between the two. He who camps outside your house or follows you down the street on every move is a stalker maybe even a pervert yet this phrase stalker has been used outside of these actions such as stalking someones facebook profile. Question is in all honesty visiting a lady’s profile sending them nice non sleazy messages and fb pokes, does that really make that person a stalker or a person who wants to try anything and everything to impress you and grab your attention. A zero response to them could indicate a lack of interest because allot of women dont know how to tell a guy there not interested so they ignore them. That said many probably more than most men can not handle rejection but thats there problem not the womans.

I finished by saying:

Moral of the story is DO NOT BE CRUEL and string them along for your own ego. That really is cruel. If you dont like them tell them in a nice way, “Your really nice and everything but sorry your not my type” something like that. Everyone can know where they stand and no one gets lead down the garden path.

Yes men are supposed to chase women but your not supposed to ignore them, i also hope that this definition of a stalker is not perverted or misconstrued against a man who becomes besotted or a man trying hard to be romantic in the hope he could capture there heart and attention. After all the good guys put in the effort the bad guys just want sex quick simple and easy. I have another post discussing this something much more in-depth yet related to this post.

Love and peace.

 

 

I bet you have a tight little pussy

Another blog post of something i found interesting on our social networking experiences that is worth putting into a blog.

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I was recently scanning across the social networking when i came across a young lady posting some remarks about a boy messaging her crudely.

Here is the original post:

  • What response does the guy who has never even said hello and sent ‘I bet you have a tight little pussy’ expect Flaming idiot

Well i just could not resist but respond to this so i did with the following raising what i consider to be some very valid issues:

The famous pretty boy ask. This is said allot not to mention other sad tasteless lines. Before jumping on the bandwagon about this it needs to be pointed out that these pretty boys actually get laid by asking and saying things like that.

There pretty boys they could drop there pants and shit in front of a girl and she would still open her legs for him, yes that fickle and lame. If the girl had more substance about her then this would not happen.

The response you gave him(if any) just makes him attack you because these boys have grown to think you cant live without there cock. In many cases it is true too and girls will admit that, if there drunk enough that is.

I no pretty boy and all i can say to all the pretty boys is there are far more of us ugly mother fuckers up here than there is of you out there so run fast. lol

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Just an interesting point into the real world actions of those behind closed doors.

21st Century Love decent men/woman don’t seem to exist

Recently on facebook one of my friends made a status update asking all she wanted for Christmas.

Here is what her status read…

 

  • The only thing I want for Christmas is a decent boyfriend… I don’t ask for much really, do I? Except decent men don’t seem to exist in the 21st Century… Not such a revelation, eh?

This made for a great topic and i felt compelled to respond yet in many cases it could be said the following reply would and could have fell on deaf ears.

Here is my reply:

Everyone’s perception of a decent man or woman is different. If we were all the same life would be one boring place.

All i can say on this is that you must open your eyes, that decent man may not be what you percept as a decent man. The non-decent men you speak of are very good liars and in all fairness you will not see through there outer face, they will cheat you and fool you into thinking there decent only to find the truth later on down the line.

That said you can find many decent men but will you be compatible well there is another thing… No one should change for anyone else but only compromise reasonably. We are again all individuals. Never try and change anyone let love grow naturally, give it a chance with a decent man.

This is turning into an essay yet its a deep subject so ill stop here. Just look behind you there are more decent men than not. Never find this man in a night club there is only one reason men cultivate these establishments and you can guess why.

Remember a top quality romantic dinner date means something, an invite for a drink means get your knickers off. Simple really. Hugs X

Now interestingly concidering her age being in the early 20’s one could argue it could be immaturity or maybe just the lack of knowledge, if so then it could well be connected to the education system and or upbringing.

The point being here is that many women reject a man asking a woman out to a romantic dinner date in today’s day where they are more inclined to accept that bar/night club night out drink. It does not take a genius to work out that the majority of men would be taking a girl out for drinking in these places for one thing and one thing only, or at least that’s what there intention is at the start anyway.

Spending some time to really understand a persons real intentions by there initial actions is something that is becoming lost in the 21’st century. I do not mean judge on this just being able to have the capabilities to question motives in all situations.

The final question that leaves us to ponder on is:

  • Why when asking a woman to a quality romantic dinner date in today’s day make the woman turn her nose up, disinterested and not willing to participate in the date?